Wednesday, 2 July 2014

I'm Sorry. Is there any significance to it?

I'm sorry. These words don’t mean anything unless you are there to provide evidence that you mean them.
Sorry: (of a person) Regretful for an action.
Saying sorry alone is never going to let the other person forgive if its not a small issue. The word sorry was invented for apologizing for small issue like stepping on a toe, etcetera but what if the issue was big? What if you cheated? What if you said something very wrong? What if?
Saying sorry isn’t going to to help you getting them to forgive you. It’s only going to get them angry and disappointed more in you. Saying sorry has never fixed anything easily. People think that they can do whatever they want and say sorry? NO. That’s not how things work. You need to prove that you’re feeling sorry actually and not just saying it. It can take a lot of time for someone to forgive, but forgetting? That’s a whole different story. But once they forgive, forgetting is easy.
People have a different opinion on everything on the planet. You won’t know but people can judge you for drinking bottle from a bottle, too. That’s how much they can judge.
People in a relationship, Friends, Et cetera just try to not judge you. People make up an image of what you are. It’s different for everybody. Some keep it bad, some good. Sometimes when you don’t know what kind of a image they have of you and you do something which eventually leads to them thinking that you’re different than what they thought and that leads them to being angry, disappointed and what not. So, their being angry isn’t exactly your full fault, it’s a quarter of theirs, too. But you get to be the wealthy part of their reason.
How to prove that you’re actually sorry? No one knows. People say that being there for them is the best way but how can you be there for someone who doesn’t want to be in your company, doesn’t want to hear from you, and doesn’t want to talk?
You do what you should. You let them be angry, you let them be disappointed and you let them talk whenever they feel like.
Don’t let your ego come in between you and the person whose forgiveness you seek.
Won’t it be so easy if everything was resolved with just a sorry?
“Hey, I killed your baby. I’m so sorry”
“I’m so sorry for cheating on you, babe.”
Emotions will cease to exist. You might find that saying sorry isn’t a effective way because they might not forgive you for a very long time but when they do. It’s an ‘Oh-so-sweet’ feeling. You’ll find that the relation between you have deepened regardless of it being a friendship or relationship etc. Let them be angry, but keep telling them you’re sorry and how sad you are. Don’t be angry.



    

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